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przed ([personal profile] przed) wrote2010-09-12 09:59 pm
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ROFF 2010

In an effort not to have Rosalind loathe movies when they make her parent disappear on alternate days for the Toronto International Film Festival (TIFF), we're having the inaugural Rosalind's Own Film Festival, or ROFF 2010.

For every night that TIFF is running and either mommy or daddy is MIA, Ros gets to pick a movie or set of shorts of her choice to watch. She's even made tickets for it. (Well, actually, she's just been collecting ticket-like-objects for the last two weeks that she could re-used for the fest.)

Tonight was my first night of the fest with Ros, and she (finally) picked Mulan. I've been trying to get her to watch it since I bought it a year ago, but tonight she picked it of her own volition, without any hinting/suggesting/coercing from me. (Actually, I was planning on steering her to The Great Mouse Detective.)

She slayed me as we were trooping up to the third floor with the DVD.

Me: I think you'll like Mulan. It's about a brave girl from China.
Ros: I'm a brave girl from China.
Me: Yes, you are, Sweetie.

Fortunately, she did indeed like it.

She thought it was hilarious when Mulan was trying to come up with a boy's name and picked Ah Choo. (I kid you not. Ah, Disney, how you vex me.) She also said that Eddie Murphy's dragon (Mu Shu, and again with the names, Disney) was too silly for her. Heh.

She also gave me hope that she's not going to be a complete girly girl at the start when they're trying to clean up Mulan for the matchmaker and she said, "Mommy, why are they making her ugly?"

Of course, her favourite characters were Mulan and the Captain, and she wanted them to live together (yes, live together, not get married) so she's apparently still rooting for that happily ever after princess ending, in a slightly non-traditional way. But this time the princess has a sword.

When it was all over, she asked if we could watch it again, so I'm hoping that it'll take over from Snow White and Cinderella as her favourite for a bit.

[identity profile] squeeful.livejournal.com 2010-09-13 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
Hey now, nothing wrong with being a girly girl.

[identity profile] przed.livejournal.com 2010-09-13 03:21 am (UTC)(link)
Well, it wouldn't be my first choice, though apparently I'm considered a fashionista at work. *g* (I have a lot of clothes from local designers, so perhaps I am a girly girl, underneath it all.)

But it's interesting, having a daughter's who's totally into the pink princess stuff, when I was all about the swords and action stuff pretty much from the word go. (Mind you, Ros has both the princess stuff and multiple toy swords, so she'll be her mother's daughter in a small way. *g*)
Edited 2010-09-13 03:26 (UTC)

[identity profile] solosundance.livejournal.com 2010-09-13 08:53 am (UTC)(link)
Mine ditched pink around two years ago (she's 8) ... it's all attitude now - denim, leggings, Miley Cyrus (ack!)

*sighs nostalgically for daughters watching princess movies*

:)

[identity profile] draycevixen.livejournal.com 2010-09-13 10:51 am (UTC)(link)

She may have the 'tude but if she's a Miley Cyrus fan it hasn't developed that much... yet. *g*

[identity profile] przed.livejournal.com 2010-09-15 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
I've been told to expect the ditching of dresses around 6.

(Ros has no idea who Miley Cyrus is, nor has she seen her show, but she's obsessed with "Hamma Montamma" on the strength of the other kids at daycare talking about her. Mind you, in her mind, Hamma Montamma is a princess who lives in a castle and married four princes, but only one of them gets to sleep in her bedroom. No, I have no idea where that came from either. *g*)

[identity profile] draycevixen.livejournal.com 2010-09-13 10:53 am (UTC)(link)

I wouldn't worry too much about the girly girl stuff as she definitely sounds like a girl who thinks for herself/will think for herself.

Once that's true of a girl then it doesn't matter at all if she gets pleasure out of the girly accoutrement. *g*

[identity profile] przed.livejournal.com 2010-09-15 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
She definitely thinks for herself. And ultimately, I don't have a problem with the girly accoutrements. It's just weird for me, when I never did that myself. (I remember making a conscious decision to try and be more girly when I was about 13. That lasted a whole week.)

[identity profile] sc-fossil.livejournal.com 2010-09-13 01:20 pm (UTC)(link)
My youngest (now 28) was the girliest girl as a child. Then she turned goth for a number of years, and now she's pretty much into Emilie Autumn, which is still pink and frilly with lots of interesting extras. LOL! But hey, her mom has interesting tastes too. *beg*

[identity profile] przed.livejournal.com 2010-09-15 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
I'm hoping for a goth stage. I went through a goth-ish stage. *g*

And as mom's all we can do is model interesting tastes, and hope they develop their own, no?